Too Little / Too Much

I'm sure that the more posts I write the more I may seem to contradict myself.  I'm not into men being overtly sexual, yet I'm looking for sexual chemistry.  I want someone to be interested in me for more than how I look, yet I'm looking to be physically attracted to them.  I want a message with some thought and effort, but please don't lay it on too thick.

I want to share two extremely different messages I've received in recent days that go along with that last contradictory statement I made above.

Last week I received a message from "daviddavid2011".  His profile had all of 6 sentences in it - if you count "UMMMMMMM..." as a sentence.  His message to me said:

"i m interested"

Thanks.  Good to know.  Unfortunately you have given me nothing to feel the same.

On the other end of things, is "powellandperalta".  Two weeks ago, he sent me this message:

"Good afternoon!

Ran across this profile... again...couldn't help but say hi.... again!!"  [I'd like to note that I don't recall the first message]   "Something about that smile, that face....I'd really love to know more about you, see what you're all about. 

Have a wonderful day, take care, hope we can talk sometime. 

xo
ciao
bella"

There was nothing wrong with that message.  I just hadn't written back because there wasn't anything about his profile that interested me.  Then today I received this message from him:

"Good morning again...

I know i already messaged...but every time i pass bye your profile or run into it.. I can't not look, and I can't not want to message. 

There is something so genuine and sweet about the look in your face and your smile that I am drawn to tell you again. You're so beautiful, you're close, you're a water sign, you have kids too, you have style which i love, and so on. 

Anyhow, I know you didn't respond the first time so I'll keep this short and sweet...like you i suspect. (i'm just a tad under 5.9, so i'm hobbitish for a dude too. hehe. 

Have a wonderful day.  take care.  would be nice to hear from you. 

[his real name]
xo"

First of all,  Mr. powellandperalta, for all the times you've come across my profile, you haven't read it correctly.  I do not have children.  Also, we live in different cities, so we're not that close.  I appreciate that you're interested in me, but it's just too much based on far too little!  Honestly, your intense interest in me based solely on an online profile, makes me uncomfortable.

Now I'll go check my inbox and hopefully find a message somewhere between those extremes.