I understand that when people are browsing an online dating site, there are certain physical traits that any individual finds attractive and you are drawn to people with those traits. I browse photos for ones that pique my interest and I usually look at the "body type" and "height" categories. It's not necessarily that I'll rule people out who don't quite fit my ideal, but certainly if they fall into what I prefer, it's a bonus towards them. So I understand that aspect of things.
But I would never message a guy and say "Hey, you're tall. I like that." (in more or less words or in any way at all.) "maaximumseduction" essentially does just that in his message to me. I'll share his message in a moment . . .
I've written before that a pet peeve of mine are messages that are obviously just copied and pasted to anyone the guy writes to. "maaximumseduction" admits that's what he's doing - yet does it anyway.
Anyway, I'll leave the rest of this post to the words from the man himself:
"Hi there checked out your profile as I think in your photo you appeared to be a curvy female and I do love that. Of course personality, character, intelligence are much more important for "some" of us men, so naturally wanted to send you a message and find out what you were like. Anyways check out my profile and if you feel there is a synergy there or an interest from your angle, please do get back and let's connect:
Hope your holidays are going great
[real name]
PS. Yes this is a canned message template, I send to women that are curvy, initially I spot and want to get to know. Saves me time from rewriting each time. I did want to reach out to you "personally" however! I hope you appreciate my brutal honesty. Most men would never admit that. Hopefully you can get a glimpse of my character!"
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