Many people write in their profiles about how they believe that being open and honest is important in a relationship. Of course it is! I think so too. But I also think that complete openness requires a bit of time, a sense of comfort and a level of interest in another person. Your dating profile is not the place to divulge your dating history. I think your past is something to be shared after a few dates, as part of a growing sense of intimacy. It is not a selling factor! I've recently come across a couple of men who clearly do not get this.
"conklinmonkey2011" sent me a brief message, but his profile did not do anything to intrigue me.
hi my name is [real name] i came to canada 5 years ago to be with my ex who gave birth to my son and stayed with her for 4 years and we decided that we should see other ppl but be active responsible parents in our sons life so i stayed here. i used to trave and build roller coasters from aroun the world now i in stall screens for cineplex oden theathers
iam not looking for the most gorgious gal in the world it be nice to be treated noce for once looks dont boher me . i help run a charity that helps at risk youth and we teach them a number of things on like set desigh and make up and other things i want to have another kid one day with a great gal and be happy iam unique iam not looking for sex like most of these guys are on here if it happens it happens i just want a cuddle peson and somone i can hold i like every kind of music but jazz well if u intrested to know more contact me and i dont bite lol
I'm glad you don't bite conkinmonkey2011. You need to something to outweigh your inability to form sentences (I can forgive spelling if he's come to Canada in recent years and I assume English is a second language, but not the near complete lack of punctuation.)
But there are some who have even more to share for a first impression. Like "dubs12345".
"I am going to be honest here from very first moment guys because I believe in honesty even if it sometimes doesn’t pay off . . . Lots of thinks change in my life since. I am single and leaving in Toronto. That’s correct, I'm new in Toronto. I came here from Europe few months ago. Till then I had a happy life, spouse I share my life with, travel a lot however that change. I split up with my exgirlfriend after 6 years of relation chip. Well, it wasn’t just relation where 2 people see each other few times per week. We used to leave together under one roof for over 6 years which is different. I assume that sometimes isn’t just meant to be and life has some other journeys for us. I become single again for whatever reason. I found it very hard initially and people what did experience similar situation knows what I am talking about. You don’t know what to do with your life, you know nothing, you just count the days, weeks and try to figure out why me, you blame your self, why did happen to me, what have I done wrong etc. Then at the some point you realise that life is still on, and you have to move so I did. I set up new challenges for me. I got that opportunity to come over in Canada for a year /Work&Travel program/. Yes, for a year . . .
Ok, when someone new arrives in Canada or any other new place you have to start from the very beginning. Some people here know what does a mean a new beginning and some people have no idea but that isn’t their faults. You have to start right from the scratch, you have nothing, you have to find the place to live, some work because you need to pay your bills so you can survive, you got to find some friends which is difficult because no one knows you and in my case its even harder due to my busy work schedule, you have to pass your full G licence so you can drive the car etc. It’s been 2 months so far and I did it all apart ……… Btw today is 21 of June for future references lol . . .
What if/? / We find each other and I have to go after my program expires?
Firstly just to clarify few thinks pls. I am not on this site or here in Canada to get married so I can obtain Canadian citizen ship like other people do here. I am happy with my passport lol. Hope I am clear. I don’t need your money because I have that. If you have question what /if? / Then there are other options for me if I want to stay longer. If I stay longer then only because of you /well if we find each other here on this site or somewhere else lol/. If I don’t find you then my next goal is Australia next year . . .
yes, you right, english isnt my native language so pls accept my apology for any gramar mistakes i did lol. i am keep working on my spelling and I will update my profile soon . . . for people who judge me here pls dont do that. you dont know me. i dont do that to you.we are all unique in some way.
I don’t bite you....."
Oh dubs12345 . . . bless. You don't need to worry about editting your spelling as much as you need to just edit out the life history! Reading your profile leaves me feeling more overwhelmed than attracted. Sorry.
At least he too doesn't bite.
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